Communication Between the Sexes: “Position” Yourself Carefully When Talking to Men at Work

Communication Keynote Speaker and On-Site Communication Training Expert, Dan O'ConnorQUICK PROFESSIONAL COMMUNICATION TRAINING TIP! You can do this starting today: When talking to men at work, remember to turn to the side before speaking. This will help open the lines of communication. Men prefer to talk while standing side-by-side, and simply turning our heads to face the other person. Women prefer talking face-to-face, or in other words, completely head-on. This is very different. If you talk to a man while facing him dead-on, it triggers something that has been hardwired in our brains to send an alert that says, “WARNING! AGGRESSION!” and the lines of communication close down. Conversely, it opens up the lines of communication in women.

Remember that while communicating in-person, body language is 55% of the message, and the words are only 7%. If you know how to position yourself differently when talking to men versus women, you will be one step closer to more effective, powerful, meaningful communication.

If your group could use on-site communication training workshops or seminars to help communication between the sexes, make sure to contact us and we’ll see how we can help.

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